Role playing domination can be sexy. Actually having the main character completely dominated and degraded by the “hero” is anything but sexy. The author justifies the hero’s behavior because it secretly turns the woman on. That just stretched my imagination too far. The world she creates is too reminiscent of many cults, extreme religious groups and societies that ruthlessly subjugate women and value them as anything more than obedient puppets. I just don’t see how being treated so badly is sexy or appealing at all. So - yes to domination role play. No to Ruined.