Friends, Lovers, and the Big Terrible Thing - Matthew Perry

Friends, Lovers, and the Big Terrible Thing

By Matthew Perry

  • Release Date: 2022-11-01
  • Genre: Biographies & Memoirs
Score: 4.5
4.5
From 3,129 Ratings

Description

INSTANT #1 NEW YORK TIMES BESTSELLER
#1 INTERNATIONAL BESTSELLER


The BELOVED STAR OF FRIENDS takes us behind the scenes of the hit sitcom and his struggles with addiction in this “CANDID, DARKLY FUNNY...POIGNANT” memoir (The New York Times)


A MOST ANTICIPATED BOOK by Time, Associated Press, Goodreads, USA Today, and more!

“Hi, my name is Matthew, although you may know me by another name. My friends call me Matty.”

So begins the riveting story of acclaimed actor Matthew Perry, taking us along on his journey from childhood ambition to fame to addiction and recovery in the aftermath of a life-threatening health scare. Before the frequent hospital visits and stints in rehab, there was five-year-old Matthew, who traveled from Montreal to Los Angeles, shuffling between his separated parents; fourteen-year-old Matthew, who was a nationally ranked tennis star in Canada; twenty-four-year-old Matthew, who nabbed a coveted role as a lead cast member on the talked-about pilot then called Friends Like Us. . . and so much more.

In an extraordinary story that only he could tell—and in the heartfelt, hilarious, and warmly familiar way only he could tell it—Matthew Perry lays bare the fractured family that raised him (and also left him to his own devices), the desire for recognition that drove him to fame, and the void inside him that could not be filled even by his greatest dreams coming true. But he also details the peace he’s found in sobriety and how he feels about the ubiquity of Friends, sharing stories about his castmates and other stars he met along the way. Frank, self-aware, and with his trademark humor, Perry vividly depicts his lifelong battle with addiction and what fueled it despite seemingly having it all.

Friends, Lovers, and the Big Terrible Thing is an unforgettable memoir that is both intimate and eye-opening—as well as a hand extended to anyone struggling with sobriety. Unflinchingly honest, moving, and uproariously funny, this is the book fans have been waiting for.

Reviews

  • Engaging and illuminating.

    4
    By LG*2023
    Engaging read. And of course, sad because we all know the final outcome so soon after the publication of this memoir.
  • Wow!

    5
    By babymonkey666
    What a life! Too bad he couldn’t handle his drugs, he woulda had way more fun. Quick read. Believe most of it. Think there’s a second book coming cause he’s going to fall off the wagon for sure…. Just read that t again, few months after he passed. Book is even better…..and sad, so sad. Sad that I was right and he did fall off the wagon. Hoping he found a little peace there near the end….
  • Tragic and beautiful

    5
    By DYM53713
    His life’s story became a goodbye letter to all of us. What a harrowing story of addiction and stardom, intertwined! This is not your typical Hollywood memoir. I highly recommend it. (It’s not for the faint of heart, though…)
  • Matthew Perry’s book … and the big terrible thing

    4
    By cynthia Parker
    To read this book after Matthew Perry’s passing is to understand that he finally lost the battle that he wages in the book. Although a huge talent and a genuinely affable guy, his story as an addict ensures any readers knowledge that an addict is the most selfish person in the world. In later chapters he laments not committing to a relationship, or having children. I say thank god he did not engage as anyone who touched or loved him came away fully scathed.
  • I read it in a day.

    5
    By DiggyBasil
    Well-written. Engaging. Heart-felt. Heart-breaking.
  • Tough Story

    5
    By MrNMLowe
    I really enjoyed reading this book and the insight into what real people struggle with. I think it took a lot of courage to say what he went through that most people don’t understand and see.
  • 10/10 would read again

    5
    By jjthomastwo
    One of the best and most touching books I’ve read. Matthew Perry is real and his story is inspiring to read. Thank you for sharing Matty!
  • Definitely a big terrible thing

    5
    By michiV95
    This man has been through so much! From the start of the book I was hooked. It’s definitely a good read. So sad he passed away.
  • Love

    5
    By harshbarbarger
    For those that rated him a 3 and below… shame on you, just shame on… he had courage and was dealt an awful hand
  • Such a raw and refreshingly honest book!

    5
    By Roomie Commando
    What courage it took to let us all in and write such an honest book. I’m so sad he’s no longer with us to see how much he touched us all.