This book applies to people at various stages of life. As a mother two, pregnant, in her early thirties, this book brought me clarity, wisdom, comfort, conviction, and inspiration. I now realize the responsibility I have to cultivate the things I desire by releasing others to tend to their lives while I tend my own. This book gives phenomenal insight on relationships, expectations in relationships, support versus enablement, pursuing and visualizing success, mental wellness, and strategies for realizing the life and love one truly desires. I am so excited to have bought this book and shocked to see the variation of which this text has application. If you’re wondering how to remove the stumbling block between yourself currently and the one you so desperately want realized, take control of that narrative with the study and reflection of this accessible, relatable, reflection-inducing, strategy-providing easily palatable book.

At the break up of my marriage this is exactly what I needed to read. I am a control freak but reading this helped me see I have no control of anyone but me.

A great read and reset on all relationships in your life including the one with yourself!

Just an amazing book. Thank you Mel.

The book is magnificant 🤍 I really loved it from the first page till the end

If you feel you’ve been off socially and feel out of place, read this book, see how the let them theory works, and watch how your energy changes and life excels immediately after learning the “let them rule”

This book is life changing. I found a way to live in peace in all aspects of my life. Especially when I implemented it with my adult kids and husband.

Good basic life recommendations provided with love. Not a silver bullet. You will still have to do the work. You may need to practice. - a lot. Ask me how I know!

Incredibly well written for the life we live today. Thank you, Mel, for sharing evidenced based research to help guide thoughts, feelings and actions to navigate this world we live in. Life and relationships are tough. We can let go and let live. There is room for us all.

This book has been a total game changer for me. I love the real examples that Mel gives. Highly recommend.