This book is fantastic. I am a medical Professional and have been married to an ADHD partner for 14 years. This book addresses many of our ongoing difficulties in a way that is constructive for both parties and gives me successful strategies to deal with challenges moving forward. I am so thankful for this book!

Wow. I felt like I was reading about my spouse & I. This book is invaluable. The author's insights have had a very positive effect on us. This book (and the other one she wrote) have truly been enlightening and shown us that we are not alone in the 'traps' we've fallen into in our relationship. There are positive and effective ways to deal with and respond to one another. The author IS compassionate and offers practical help for both ADHD and non-ADHD partners. I'm glad she was willing to share: Thank you so much!!!

I was very excited to dig into this book. Actually I found it by chance just looking up marriage help. I never put 2+2 together thinking hmm ADHD and my marriage problems. The author did a great job with the writing as even for those who can't sit still can actually get sooo involved page by page because it relates to so much of what I and my spouse are going through. Thanks

I was recently diagnosed as an adult with inattentive adhd. I have been reading every book I can get my hands on to understand my diagnosis, how it affects my relationships, and how I can make progress. This book had useful insights and was thought provoking but I thought it was very depressing. The author suffered as a adhd spouse. She expounds on the difficulty related to being married to someone with my disorder. She offers little compassion for what it feels like to be the spouse who is forever failing, falling short, or forgetting. If you are married to someone with adhd and are at wits end, this book will validate your feelings. If you are seeking to have more compassion in your marriage and of yourself with your shortcomings, I would say skip this one.